A Little Bit About Me
I am Seska Lee – your guide to all things smart and sexual.*
The purpose of my website is to provide entertainment and sex education to adults.
I have taken the saying ‘be the change you want to see in the world’ to heart and I hope by sharing my journey in the often messy and confusing world of sexuality that I can help you have a rich and satisfying sex life.
Every step I have taken has brought to me where I am today. Though when I graduated university with two BAs under my belt (Child Studies & Psychology) and began working as an educational consultant I never imagined that 16 years down the line I would be a successful adult entertainer making her mark as a writer and sex educator.
So, how did I get here?
What happened was that while I enjoyed my teaching work, I felt something was missing in my life. You know – that spark? I was not feeling it. Then the digital age started to heat up in the late 1990s. I began discovering alternative sexual lifestyle communities such as the Montreal fetish scene and swinger clubs. I did a tonne of reading and engaged on many a message board, learning about open relationship models, sexuality and amateur homemade porn. It created that spark in me and I saw the opportunity to radically change my life and contribute in ways I had not considered before.
In 1998 I took a big risk and decided to create personal website as a platform for my sexual exploration and self expression. It led me down a pretty unique life path and even though there were hundreds, and then thousands of women, men and couples with their own xxx websites, I did things a little differently from the crowd. Adult entertainment was just the beginning. Through my real and virtual travels I met all sorts of interesting and diverse people. I learned so much about body image, boundaries, communication, gender dynamics, relationships, sexuality, sex work and ultimately – myself.
1998 – from an early photoshoot !!
Isn’t it amazing how I hovered in mid air like that?
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I have always felt driven to share my experiences and knowledge with others so that perhaps people could learn from both my challenges and my breakthroughs. What began as a simple independent porn site and form of expression turned into so much more. It has become my life’s work to promote sexual health, pleasure and empowerment through the exploration of erotica, thoughtful insight, research, real-life experiences and resources. My website is a something I am very passionate about and I hope my journey of sexual self-discovery helps you along with yours.
March 2012 – This time I decided not to photoshop out the couch!
I also smartened up in 2000 and stopped tanning.
* I am also an activist, educator, model, performer, webmaster and writer. On top of all that I am an Aquarius, aunt, daughter, sister, friend, guardian of two cuddly cats, decent cook, horrible pie maker, napper, joyful dancer, dreamer and glass-half-full kind of person.