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    All Mixed Up About Porn & Safer Sex

    I think the news that Gonorrhea has been declared a super bug means we are in a new reality when it comes to safer sex. I think it is time for people to reflect on their safer sex practices and STI testing. Some people might find it hypocritical for a gal who has shot porn to speak about using condoms. I have always used condoms when shooting porn (except with my then-husband – we were fluid bonded), but I In am very well aware that most porn does not feature condom use. So what gives? Porn Is Not A How-To Guide Please do not look at porn for ideas on what…

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    Dating Advice from Another Divorcée

    In the past couple of years, I have done a tonne of reading of dating advice books in hopes of preparing myself for this brave new world of sexting, public relationship statuses, and Facebook stalking. I also read articles on the web about such things. Information is power. It can also drive you a little nuts.  Soon I will start going to seminars on how to dress for your man and other important dating topics. Oh, how being single confounds me! Today my reading list included a post at XO Jane by Mandy Stadtmiller that offered dating advice to men. It was a great read – funny, real and relatable. Here are a…