Sex Ed

I am a bit of a sex geek. I always have been and it’s what led me to write about sexuality for adults or as I like to call my articles, essays and tips: Seskuality: Smart Sex Ed for Adults.

When I was young my favourite book was about where we come from (mine was in French and had a comparison of human conception with that of birds – wacky!). As I got older I became obsessed with those you will be a woman soon and how a boy becomes a man pamphlets that feminine hygiene products companies made for health class (ours were so dated – it was 1982 and they suggested pads with belts!). Later I was captivated by the original version of The Teenage Body Book: A New Edition for a New Generation and then as a young adult it was The Joy of Sex: The Ultimate Revised Edition and Our Bodies, Ourselves. Every phase was about devouring all this fascinating information.

I am of the opinion that sexuality is part of a life-long process. There is always something you can learn even if you are an adult and have ‘settled down’. With each phase of life our bodies change and so do our needs and desires (as does what others need and desire of us). Our sexual lives are a part of this evolution and asking questions and educating ourselves are key to having a satisfying sex life. We need to keep learning!

{For the younger people in your life I highly recommend Scarleteen.}

Sep 252014
Sexbit - You Can Call Him Linus

Giving a name to the genitals may simply be an attempt to personify them but can also impute to them a life of their own, especially if their owner wishes to avoid responsibility for their actions. Alan Richter Last night I was listening to a radio show where one of the personalities shared with us [...]

Sep 242014
Locker Room Sex Talk

Do men and women talk differently about sex? I mean specifically behind closed doors – explicitly and in a vulgar way. I think it depends on the individual because when it comes to sex talk a lot has changed over the past fifty years. Throw in the concept of how we are moving away from [...]

Sep 112014
Sexbit - Lazy Threesomes

Often, threesomes appeal because we are too lazy to put the work in to boost a flagging sex life. We think a quicker, easier way to add spice is to introduce a third party – let them do the work. Tracey Cox Hot Sex: How to Do It I had not considered this particular motive [...]

Sep 102014
Sex On The First Date

What a dated topic! I know! And, what a horrible pun. I know! But even in this age of online hook-up apps and casual encounter listings there are those who date and the question of when to get sexual is on many minds. I suspect the answer to the question comes easier to people who [...]

Sep 042014
Sexbit - Dreams

Dreams, perhaps more than waking reality, are populated with a host of players, from animals to cartoons characters to old lovers to rock stars. You probably have dream relationships with a much grander assortment of personalities than you’d ever allow yourself normally. Dreams offer countless opportunities to understand how you pick the people you relate [...]

Sep 032014
Condom Issues - Malfunctions

Humans not perfect and neither are condoms so I thought it would be important to share a little information on what to do when you have a condom malfunction. Condoms Gets Stuck Inside This has happened to me. It worked out fine but it was kind of weird. If it happens to you or your [...]

Aug 282014
Sexbit - Memory

You can’t remember sex … there is no memory of it in the brain, only the deduction that it happened and that time passed, leaving you with a silhouette that you want to fill again. E.L. Doctorow (1931 – ) I chose this photo for this Sexbit Quote because it was from a night vision [...]