I Love My G Spot

My G Spot was not always responsive to stimulation. For a long time I found the stroking motion so key to its stimulation did nothing for me. That changed when I was in my early 40s. It started to feel good and then very good when I applied pressure and stroked my G Spot. I figured this out by exploring and finding my way.

My G Spot Journey

I have stimulated the G Spots of others and experienced firsthand the ejaculatory result. The ladies I made come this way showed me what was possible. I was intrigued but my body didn’t respond that way. I was OK with that. All bodies are unique when it comes to sex and pleasure. There is so much going on in terms of the physical body and its chemistry, not to mention our personal emotional stories around sex.

I try to be in a state of curiosity and let go of expectations. This has made sex so much fun for me. I am journey-oriented and not goal-oriented.

With that in mind, I jumped at the chance a few years ago to do a sex toy review for Find Your Pleasure. With the Dalia— Signature G-Spot Dildo by Désirables, a beautifully handcrafted porcelain dildo designed for G-Spot stimulation, things really started to build up pleasure-wise.

The shape was the classic one that is so suited for G Spot stimulation, but so light that I could keep going longer than I ever could with any other kind of dildo. What I realized is what I needed beyond the shape was the time to fully let the sensation build.

You see, I can come quickly from direct clitoral stimulation under few circumstances:

• I am ovulating
• I haven’t come in a couple of weeks 
• I am deeply and passionately attracted to my partner(s)
• My erotic mind is intensely aroused by the circumstances of the sex I am having

However, with G-Spot pleasure, I need something a bit different.

Certainly the above help things along, but what seems to be a must is having at least one orgasm (though two or three is better) from clit stimulation first and then moving to G Spot fun. I think this is because the G Spot is not a separate part of anatomy but a part of the clitoral network. Once I’ve come this network is engorged and the tissue that surrounds the urethra and makes up the G Spot is more susceptible to making stimulation feel pleasurable.

This means that when you’re stimulating the G spot, you’re actually stimulating part of the clitoris, which is much larger than we’re led to believe. Turns out, the pea-sized nub where the inner labia meet is actually only the tip of the clitoris and divides into two “roots” that can be about four inches long. 

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I have more I want to share about my G Spot experience (including links to videos of me coming from G Spot pleasure) so stay tuned. I think a series is in order!