Kiss and Tell - Part 3

In my previous blog entry, I told you a little bit about my first partnered sex encounter since the Pandemic began. Well, a few weeks later I met up with a new lover and I will share a little bit about him today.

He is in his early 40s. Single with a dark mane of hair, he has a sexy confident vibe to him. Single and nonmonogamous, we have a lot of sexual values in common and we knew we’d only know once we met if we were sexually compatible.

I’ve now seen him on two different occasions and I can say with confidence, YES, WE ARE.

If you are a personal friend of mine you know I have a type. I won’t say what that is because if a fan doesn’t have those traits they tend to get hurt even if there is zero chance we will ever meet. So I will just say this fella had those traits and I did swipe right because of them but only in person did I realize just how much he was a match for my attractions.

We got together on a Friday afternoon. I cancelled a massage in order to see him. I was in the mood to be touched but clearly, I wanted something different than my monthly massage. I wanted to be kissed and I wanted to be fucked. We started on the sofa chatting and sharing a bit more about ourselves than we had in our texting. It wasn’t long before he kissed me, made out for a while, and drank up his masculinity.

I very much want my partnered sex to be different than my private masturbation experiences as well as my on-camera shoots and shows. I want to indulge in the physicality of the other person with all of my senses. I’m not sure if I can explain it accurately but that is what I feel I’m doing when I touch, smell, taste, listen, and observe the person I’m with.

Then we moved to his bedroom and I noticed right away that he had a blanket covering the bed. As someone who is in the business of sex, I know a sex blanket when I see one. For most, it’s about protecting your sheets and such but for me, it also is about different energies— distinguishing sex space from personal space. Something for a future blog post.

As for the sex with my new lover, it’s passionate but without excessive roughness. No judgement against those who like that but I’m not into aggressive choking, gagging, face slapping and the like. I do like sensation play and he understands that and likes it too so there is a nice sort of switching of holding, grabbing, pulling, twisting, and spanking of each other (not just me and not just him) that gets sprinkled in through our time together.

He has stamina which is something I really appreciate because I like a variety of positions and mixing up oral with fingers and penetration. I also like a good pounding. ;-)

After a period of partnered celibacy, it feels so good that as new lovers we are physically compatible. Even more so I’m happy to have discovered this also applies to our erotic communication. We both like to talk about other sexual experiences and partners before, during and after sex. This has been a big turn-off with other lovers and something I’ve struggled to contain. It feels so good to not have to do that. Especially because it’s not merely tolerated but a turn-on.

I hope I can see him again this week.