Tease and Denial

I had my first live-on-cam orgasm denial experience recently. When the person took me private I assumed they wanted me to deny them their orgasm. I get a lot of submissive men in my cam room who want JOI, CEI and orgasm control. But no, this client was Dominant and wished to control my orgasm. I was intrigued but had no idea I would have one of my most powerful and sublime orgasms ever.

I’ve played with orgasm control and denial a little bit with a past lover but it was not something that was a major turn-on for him or me. What we did was more of an experiment than a practice. I did find it interesting but ultimately nothing out of this world. I think this was in part because most of my experience with the cishet men I’ve been with has been more about insisting I come. Not encouraging but insisting. Instead of orgasm denial, it has been about pushing me to have an orgasm. It was a power exchange without pleasure at its focus. At least that is how it felt for me. It felt like they were being bossy in the way they told me to come without considering how I come.

My recent line-on-cam experience was very different. I felt that the cam client understood the responsibility they had when I gave over my power and pleasure to them. We had a quick but on-point negotiation of cues and limits. I felt confident that if things didn’t go well I could opt out quickly and easily. For a first-time experience with some, even within the confines of a virtual client and service provider arrangement, this I think is important.

My client seemed to have a very good understanding of my anatomy and how different toys would do different things to my body. Within a few moments of their instruction, I could see they were very adept at using language to connect with me and guide me through the journey they wanted me to have.

I began by getting naked and slowly touching my vulva while avoiding my clit. My client instructed me when to touch myself and how. It was so sexy and seductive for me. A little bit into the experience they had me choose my most intense vibrator (Original Magic Wand) and told me to set it on the highest setting and place it directly on my clit and they kept me on the edge in such incredible ways.

Then something rather spectacular happened but you’ll need to join and watch the video to see what. ;-)