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3 min readJuly 4, 2021

The Best Sex Parties

The Best Sex Parties

A question I get asked often (and most from non-paying viewers of my content) is about sex parties and if I will ever fuck fans like I did back in the day. The answer is very likely no.

Let me explain why.

In the late 1990s and early 2000s, my then-husband was my photographer. That was how we “Internet Amateur Porn Stars” ran our sites— as a couple. I didn’t do this alone like I’m doing so now. There were also many of us in Montreal so it was possible for us to get together for shoots, live cam shows, and some very epic parties.

What people at home and even those in attendance didn’t know is we had security in the form of friends and employees (for those performers with the need/means to have a staff). They looked like regular party goers, but they kept an eye out for troublemakers.

At first, we did bar meets in public places. We mainly flashed, kissed and dirty danced. Later, thanks to Carol Cox and her porn company, we had access to large private spaces for sex parties. There we could do more without breaking criminal laws. Believe me, it’s no fun being charged with public indecency. It costs you a lot. Yes, I speak from experience. But that’s a painful story for another day.

The other concern that’s more important than ever is that when you make content at sex parties there is paperwork. If we want to share this content (and we do) we need release forms, documented consent, and ID that we have to keep on hand AND upload to our platforms. Not many people want to sign the paperwork, much less have it all uploaded to various websites that require it.

Then there is the issue of money. If I were to create this kind of content again I would need all of these things: location, security, photographers, videographers, and paperwork. Not to mention normal things for any party: snacks, beverages, and clean-up crew. This requires a budget. A big one. This is something I don’t have given the little money I make from clip sales and subscriptions (I support myself through my live cam shows).

That is the infrastructure for a sex party but there is more that I would need. I would also need to have a group of other performers in my area interested in creating this kind of content. Not to mention fans who can deliver if you know what I mean. If you wondered why you saw the same couple of fellas on repeat, that is why. Sexual performance reliability in terms of erections and ejaculation isn’t so easy to find.

When I’ve told fans the truth behind the sex parties content their jaws drop and they are a bit sad. I know the content we created was HOT and we made it look so easy. However, just because the fun was authentic and raw doesn’t mean there wasn’t professionalism to what was going on to make it happen. Yes, the sex parties were a bit magical but they didn’t happen by magic.

One of the most rewarding compliments I’ve received about my party content is how much people loved seeing me smile.

If you want to see more of this classic swinger sex party content check out my VIP area.

And maybe, if we are all very lucky, I can make sex party content again. In many ways, it’s up to you and your support. ;-)